um, no, i don't know what you did that made your feelings very clear but whatever it was if it wasn't a
formal declaration of courtship
then no it's not good enough
you're totally right, it probably IS his turn and he is absolutely being a stubborn idiot and honestly he deserves to be LONELY FOREVER for being so... ugh. stupidly uncompromising.
but he's starving and honestly he's probably insecure and lonely and trying to hide it behind a wall of excuses about rules and decorum
so what do you care about more? his well-being or whose turn it is?
FORMAL do you understand me FORMAL is the important word here
FORMAL DECLARATION OF COURTSHIP
seriously i'm just going to lock you both in a room and you're not allowed out until you make out
sorry i forgot you don't understand formality ok here's the plan
so you text him to meet you--ideally someplace nice (park? nice restaurant or teahouse?) or someplace with fond meanings for the both of you--and tell him that you have something important to ask of him
then once you're there and you have his full attention, bow and say something about how you'd like to express formal intent to court him.
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if not then you should do that immediately
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shouldn't he be doing that! i made my feelings very clear! it's his turn!!!
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formal declaration of courtship
then no it's not good enough
you're totally right, it probably IS his turn and he is absolutely being a stubborn idiot and honestly he deserves to be LONELY FOREVER for being so... ugh. stupidly uncompromising.
but he's starving and honestly he's probably insecure and lonely and trying to hide it behind a wall of excuses about rules and decorum
so what do you care about more? his well-being or whose turn it is?
FORMAL do you understand me FORMAL is the important word here
FORMAL DECLARATION OF COURTSHIP
seriously i'm just going to lock you both in a room and you're not allowed out until you make out
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i can't just... GRAB HIM that wouldn't work! i don't want him to be uncomfortable!!!
that plan isn't too bad, though. i can't guarantee kissing but... hmmmmm.
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ok here's the plan
so you text him to meet you--ideally someplace nice (park? nice restaurant or teahouse?) or someplace with fond meanings for the both of you--and tell him that you have something important to ask of him
then once you're there and you have his full attention, bow and say something about how you'd like to express formal intent to court him.